Have you heard of the F*ck or Fight Syndrome?

Have you ever wondered why you get so horny after a heated argument with your partner? 

This can be explained by how our limbic system operates. The limbic system is the part of our brain connected with emotions, instincts, drives, learning and memory. Stimulating certain parts of the limbic system can result in you feeling anger, pleasure, fear or sexual arousal. 

Sometimes the part of the limbic system that controls our anger can also activate the sexual arousal part of our brain, as these two responses are inextricably linked.

Think about your body’s response when you are angry - your heart beats faster, your palms might sweat, your cheeks flush, you might get shortness of breath… sounds similar to when you’re in the mood to get it on, right? 

So if you do find yourself in this situation and are confused as to what’s going on, rest assured. It’s normal! Sometimes you want your partner to f*ck off and f*ck you right afterwards.